Before a relationship can come to an end, there must have been a reason for it. There are a lot of problems or reasons why relationships end. Here are the top four most common reasons why relationships don’t last and some of the problems associated with it.
Problem #1: Cheating/Infidelity
This is one of the most common reasons why most relationships end. Some relationships can overcome this problem, but most are hurt by the issue and don’t trust in their partner. If there is no trust, there can’t be a good relationship. They end up worrying too much about if the other partner is cheating on them that they can’t focus on rebuilding that trust they used to have. Cheating is regular problem in the relationships we have today and continues to be an issue.
Problem #2: Lack Of Affection
Many couples love to hear the other say “I love you”. They might hear that a lot in the beginning but notice that it soon dies down. This is the same for hugging, kissing, and being intimate. If you slow down on the affection enough, it will have the other partner wondering if you if still have love for them and care about them. If your love life and/or affection is dead, you might as well say your relationship is too.
Problem #3: Fighting/Arguing
Almost everyone has had an argument or fight with their significant other. This can be very normal because it is in our human nature to disagree on things, but if arguing and fighting is all you do in your relationship, you might need to call a counselor, or get ready for a break-up. When in relationships, couples have to find an alternative to arguing and fighting and do the complete opposite. Sit down and have a serious conversation and lay the cards on the table in a good manner or just take a break and come back when you have let some steam off. A lot of arguing and fighting isn’t good for a relationship and it ends up being a problem neither partner can handle and you know what that leads to.
Problem #4: Controlling/Jealous Partner
At first you might like to see your boyfriend/girlfriend get jealous of you because it might be a sign that he really cares for you and don’t want anyone else to have you, but in reality this could lead to a controlling partner. When you are in a relationship, you don’t want to be told who you can see, what you can do, what not wear, and so on. This controlling problem can also lead to violence. You should make it where your partner trusts you and the same for the other. Many relationships end because of a controlling partner or jealousy. You have to be able to trust each other in relationships.
So now you have four of the most common reasons why relationships end. If you can avoid these top four problems, you can have a fighting chance at saving your relationship. There are other problems that cause relationships to end, but they are not as serious as these and could be dealt with more easily.[ad_2]
Source by Meka Powers